Assuming you’re a man, the process to register your member login only requires your name, email address, a password, birthdate, country and zip code. You will need to submit credit card information at some point to be able to interact with the women, but it is not required in the registration process. A mobile login is possible using a smartphone web browser as there is no app to use.
The majority of your profile will be setting requirements, or preferences, for the women you wish to correspond with. When you create a profile, you can do this at your own pace. However, your time won’t be spent on your dating profile as much as it will be searching profiles of the women. They’re the only ones required to have a photo and details of who they are.
One of the key features of Loveme is their “tours” for which you spend a handful of nights in a country and meet various women you could potentially date and/or marry. These cost upwards of a few thousand dollars. These tours already include the expense of lodging, food, transportation (not including air travel to get to the country), and attending “socials.” The socials are fully catered events with a wide variety of women and translators in order to mingle with as many people as possible.
As a matchmaking service, there don’t seem to be any free features or free account features. A basic plan subscription begins at $95 and requires monthly payments of $29.95 to maintain your platinum member status. With this plan, it you get certain discounts such as with “Express Mail” is $7.49 as compared to $9.99 for non-platinum members. Three-way phone calls (one of the people being a translator so you two can communicate properly) are $3.99 per minute rather than $5.99. Every monthly payment goes is credit that goes towards your choice of a tour.
There is mention of an “exclusive” premium plan, but there is little information provided on how much that would cost and how to go about acquiring it.
As a free service, there is a “Match Wizard” that will send you the profiles of their new women to your email every weekend for you to be able to search mobile. For this, all you need to do is submit a form with your criteria for these search profiles. It’s easy to learn how to use Loveme’s search since so much of it is taken off your hands.
You can also use Loveme’s search engine to sort through the various women, including preferences like age range, weight and height range, child status, English skill level, and so on. There are not options to search by city or search by username since this is a match making service.
There is no messaging system for this dating service. You’ll be instructed on how to message someone as this is a pay-per-letter service. This is likely done because not all of the women on the website are 100% proficient in English.
Considering that there are no options to search for the men, women that sign up for this service are at the whim of the matchmakers and then men who are paying to interact with them for the chance of dating.
So, if you change your mind, how to cancel a Loveme.com account? Despite the ease of establishing the account, deleting your account can only be done by filling out an online form, clicking on the cancellation link, and entering into a text box that you wish to delete your account, which is then sent to someone that will delete your account, rather than being able to delete it automatically. Another way is to send an email with the subject line “REQUEST TO DELETE MY ACCOUNT.”
To cancel your Loveme subscription to their platinum account, send an email to afa@wwdl.net saying that you wish to stop payments. It may take them anywhere from 24-72 hours to fulfill this request, so if you expect that you don’t want to continue the service, don’t wait until the last minute to try and cancel next month’s payment.
For people considering a relationship with a foreign woman, this is an option to meet a variety of women from the continent of Asia that provides a multitude of services in helping those relationships start. This is a more expensive way of finding a relationship and is likely meant for individuals that are looking for marriage as, once you’ve decided who you want to be with, the woman will come to you and likely need to marry in order to stay permanently within the country. However, the expense of this kind of service is often because women are willing to leave their home for a better life.
While the women participating in this dating service are doing so willingly, they don’t seem to have a lot of agency over who “picks” them. While not stated anywhere on their website, they likely have the option to turn down someone who wishes to date them even if they don’t get to search for Western men that meet their criteria. While Loveme has many testimonials of successful relationships and marriages that come from their services, not everyone may be interested in a relationship that starts off so one sided.